February 2007

  • My First Book

    The Rice Daddies blog recently held a writing contest that asked parents to reflect upon a favorite book from their childhood or one they have read to their child(ren). I missed the contest but it got me thinking about my favorite books from childhood. Actually, I don’t remember the title or the author of the…

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  • Is.It.Me?Space.Com

    I have a profile. I have Friends. I have even been Added and have asked to be Added. So why do I feel like something’s missing? Why do I feel like I’m doing something wrong? I have friends who can get on a plane or a train and end the journey having met a new…

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  • Drawing Lines in the Sand

    I have drawn lines in the sand with my family. I have had to set boundaries. It was difficult at first. It started with my father and grandmother. I had to get them to call before “dropping by.” I also had to get them to agree not to drop by so often. It hasn’t been…

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  • JinXes

    When I was young (maybe 10, maybe 7), my grandmother ran through the house shaking a rope of bells. My sister and I followed excitedly behind her with our dog, who barked throughout the commotion. My grandmother said she was chasing out demons. Decades later, I reminded my grandmother of it. She denied ever doing…

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  • Waxy Poetic

    It used to pour out of me. It used to be a state of mind. I used to be able to take in a situation and churn it out as “poetry.” I was so passionate about it then. I actually enjoyed the challenge of putting sounds and rhythms together. I used to have something to…

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  • Nine Lives Frisky

    Are you an animal lover? Do you have pets? The Chinese aren’t big on the pets-n-baby scenario. I like to tell friends and co-workers what some of the members in my wife’s and my extended family said to us when we announced we were going to have a baby. One of the comments was (loosely…

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  • Just Like Momma Used To

    I joke that my dad was the typical stony Chinese dad. I joke that the only time he spoke to me was to tell me that I was blocking the TV. My dad is a nice man. In hindsight, while he was the one that gave me most of my spankings, it was usually at…

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